Whether you are newly single, returning after a long chapter, or simply ready for something that lasts, this is where dating starts to make sense.
I believe in frameworks grounded in science and research, and understanding the science behind love is where I begin. From there, we build the skills to make wiser, more informed decisions about your relationships.
The feeling of love, on its own, is never quite enough. Knowing how to move between your head and your heart is a skill, and it is one very few of us were ever taught. The good news is that it can be learnt. Happy, lasting relationships are not stumbled upon. They are built, one conscious choice at a time. Learning to tell lust, attraction and attachment apart, for example, is where that begins.
Falling in love has never been the difficult part. Building something secure and enduring in the modern world is another matter entirely. It asks for a clearer understanding of yourself, a wiser way of choosing a partner, and a little knowledge and effort along the way. None of it needs to be left to chance.
More people over 50 are single than ever before, and they are the fastest growing group in dating today. If you are back out there after a divorce, a loss, or decades in one relationship, it can feel like landing in a foreign country: the rules have changed, the apps seem built for people half your age, your grown children have opinions, and part of you wonders if it is too late to look without looking foolish. It isn't. What most people your age truly want is companionship, someone to share the table, the travel, and the quiet evenings with, and that is a perfectly honest thing to want. We will find your way of dating, at your pace, with your dignity fully intact, including staying wise to the scams and time wasters along the way. There is no age at which you stop deserving love.
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
Stephen Chbosky · The Perks of Being a WallflowerTell me where you are with dating right now, no preparation, no pressure.
Book your free 15 minutes